39. "Capacity Building 101: How Training Programs Are Creating Widow Leaders" - Empowering Widows - Widow Empowerment - Kifayat Carew
39. "Capacity Building 101: How Training Programs Are Creating Widow Leaders" A widow does not usually describe the day her husband died as the day she became a leader. She describes it as the day the house emptied, the in-laws arrived, and the bank asked for a signature she could not read. Leadership, in the widows' groups that are getting this right, is not taught in a lecture hall. It is built back into a woman one competence at a time, until she stops asking who will speak for her and starts speaking. The gap is enormous. The United Nations counts 258 million widows nearly one in ten are in extreme poverty, and widows are routinely left out of the exact programs like credit, legal aid, civic training, that produce community leaders. Carolyn Moor , widowed at 37 with two small children, spent ten years looking for one woman who had rebuilt her life after the same loss before she gave up waiting and founded the Modern Widows Club. "I was once a widow, then I ...